• Female
• 47 years old
• 5' 6" tall
• Slender
• Blonde hair - Hazel eyes
• Black / African descent
• Non-Smoker
• Political / Government / Civil Service (occupation)

• I'd rather not say (income)
• Looking for: Marriage, Serious Relationship, Casual Relationship
• Divorced
• Has 4 children
• Christian (religion)
• pet: Cats

A little about me...
Divorced mother of 4. A 29, 27,24 & a 9 year oId was married for 20 years, now I have been estranged & divorced from that marriage for 5years. Simply stated if you judge me by the pictures you see, then you’re going to miss out on something great. My true value cannot be conveyed through pictures. I share them because I have learned most men are visual. “I get that” It’s a lure, it’s the INITIAL reason to look. I am more than what you see, & more than likely NOT what you think. And NO that is NOT code for I’m a man! ..eewww! Aesthetics are not high on my totem pole although Shrek look-alikes need NOT apply. I am a sucker for good dialogue & conversation. I love words! Strategically placed words turns me on. I even took Latin for 6 years ;-) My friends say I have this commanding walk that draws attention when I sometimes walk in a room. That façade covers the fact that I am very humble. In 2003 at the age of 38 despite what Drs said could never happen to me again, I gave birth to a beautiful son. But the residual from being on bed-rest forfor 7 months left me almost 100lbs over weight. My understanding on how & where people can put value on others is unprecedented I will always be humble with or w/o the walk Ha!

About the one I'm looking for...
I can be a strong ally or the boss…..it all depends on the characteristics of the man by my side. My idea guy, without a doubt, will have to be strong enough to lead me…..but wise and gentle enough not to break my spirit.

(clearing my throat while standing on my soapbox) To the career Black People Meet Man. You know who you are. You have been on here before Black people were actually meeting! PLEASE REFRAIN FROM CONTACTING ME!!! You are always looking for the next best thing. Too greedy to simply try YOUR best. There will always be someone, smarter, funnier, cutier, etc etc. Addicted to this site, but not YOUR own mission. I don’t think we have anything in common. Keep moving, Please? (smile) …..That was kinda mean….BUT I MEANT IT!

I'd just like to add...
Something I would like to know...
Can someone please tell me why so many guys take pictures with their cars??? I was thinking I should take my next picture in my closet next to my shoes, purses and clothes. But I thought the implication would slight my children's value to me. (wink)

Things I like......
Dining out
Reading
Movies
Great conversations
Wine/Wine tasting
Couple social events
Exploring new activities
I love music Most kinds, Eric Benet, Jeffery Osborne, Chicago. Earth Wind and Fire, Hall and Oates, Kenny Rogers, Foreigner, Pasty Cline, Ambrosia, LIVE reggae...Live being the operative word. :-) I am not into hard Rap ...but if I hear it over and over again sometimes the hook will grow on me. Ha! I love Kem!
I like to laugh and make other people laugh.
I think everything I have to say is important, so therefore I think it is important for me to be a great listener.
.....I think it's a great way to train the people around me, so they can listen to what I have to say. LOL! THAT JUST MADE ME LAUGH OUT LOUD.