A little about me...

I have a real zest for life. I have a very positive spirit and energy. I am humble and dedicated to helping those in need. I love spontaneity. I try not to take myself too seriously. I work hard and there are times when I like to play hard as well. I am independent, but not domineering. I am a kind, loyal and sincere person. I am an affectionate person who enjoys spending time with family and friends, but I also enjoy private, quiet intimate moments as well. I expect honesty even if it is not necessarily what I want to hear. I do not like negativity and try to distance myself from negative people. I believe in having a vision and a purpose. My work is important to me, but my relationship with God comes first, followed by my commitment to my mate and then my family and friends. I try to avoid confrontation unless it is really necessary. I am quite patient, but I have a low tolerance for dishonesty and people who are users and people who are willing to lie or say whatever they feel is necessary to get what they want.

About the one I'm looking for...

I like a man that has a relationship with God and is not afraid to admit that. Someone who is confident, but not arrogant or boisterous. I am looking for man that will be honest, faithful and monogamous; someone who is committed to fidelity. A man who is interested in a "lady" and not only knows how to treat a lady, but is willing to treat a lady like a lady. A man that has vision and aspirations and knows his purpose. A man who is an independent thinker and is not afraid to stand up for what is right; and someone who is able to appreciate the value of what is above a woman neck, as well as what is below her neck. Someone who is willing to work hard, but also knows how to set work aside and relax and enjoy life as well. A man who is a "father" to any child or children that he participated in creating. I understand that there are curious people that just simply want to simply want to take a peak into someone else's life,but if you do not have a serious interest do not waste your time and please do not waste mine. Thank you!

I'd just like to add...

I have alot that I can share and would love to share, but I am also willing to learn. I think that healthy communication is essential to the success of a good relationship. Part of healthy communication is knowing when to talk and what to say, but it also involves knowing when to be quiet and listen. Being patient and understanding is crucial when trying to build a foundation. I have not traveled alot recently, but I love to travel.