A little about me...

WHO AM I???
Unrealistic! Dreamer! Shy! People Person! Nurturer!
Goal Oriented! Persistent!
I have the unrealistic expectation of finding a special someone to share my future with…Maybe not on this site…But, I still dream of finding him. My shyness led me to this site…Where I can anonymously look for my soul mate. If I were to meet you on the pathway of life…I would never initiate a conversation…But, I will hold a conversation with the devil himself if he started it! I am a people person. I am usually the person everyone tells their problems to (even complete strangers). I guess it's because I listen without being judgmental or giving unsolicited advice. I am a nurturer...Family, and extended family is my 1st priority. Money is a necessity of life...However,I believe that you can always make more money, but, you can't buy family, or love, or loyalty, or respect. I feel that every human relationship should be based in honesty, trust and caring. I believe in setting personal goals and persistently carrying them out. If you are interested in finding out more about "WHO AM I"...Send me a message...Person to person.

About the one I'm looking for...

HONESTY, TRUST & RESPECT...Are the basis for developing a friendship or a relationship between any two people. As mature adults, if we don't have those 3 qualities, we have nothing!!!

Recently, someone told me that the term, “Serious Relationship”, was an unrealistic expectation for this site and that it turned some of you brothers off…That statement gave me the impetus to explain my choice. Intuitively, I know that any relationship has to start somewhere (friendship) and progress to other stages…I also know that most relationships will not progress beyond the friendship phase…But, no one can have too many friends! For me, the ultimate stage is a monogamous, intimate, and committed (serious) relationship…And, to you brothers that are scared away by my choice…What will be, will be! To the rest of you…I’m still looking for my “Cookie Cutter Man”!

Someone recently asked me if I were given a cookie cutter, how would I make my ideal man. So, here he is... My king would be aggressive, intelligent, sexy, romantic, honest, a true gentleman, and above all else - a one woman man. I'm looking for someone to hold my hand as we walk into the future together. Let's chat if you think I could be your queen.

I'd just like to add...

Currently, most of my time away from work is spent trying to get fit. I work out 6 days a week (never on Sunday). I love 'who dun it' movies and books and all types of music. I enjoy playing cards (even though I am a bit out of practice).

Message Starter Ideas

This member would like to know one or more of the following about you:

Q. Do you like to stay in shape? If so how important is it to you?

Q. Do you like to read? What is your favorite book?

Q. If you had to leave everything behind but got to choose 5 things to take with you what would they be?

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