Search for Local Black Singles in Oklahoma City

I'm a fun guy who likes to laugh and smile when given the chance too, as life is too short to be depressed or stressed. I'm a "Man" first, but a gentle giant who knows how and when to have fun! I'm all about enjoying life!

reserved/ nonconfrontational/easy to get along with. Looking for a partner to enjoy the finer things of life.
Sports/concerts/dining/movies/weekend get aways.

my personality is great. money should be use wisely.i am retired assembly worker

I'M FROM THE OLDSCHOOL I BELEIVE IN TREATING A LADY LIKE THE QUEEN SHE IS, OPENING HER DOORS, PULLING HER CHAIR OUT, STANDING UP WHEN SHE RETURNS TO THE TABLE, GIVE HER SUPPORT IN WHATEVER SHE IS TRYING TO DO, AND BEING THERE FOR HER KNOW MATTER WHAT....

I'm a bit of an audiophile and can often be found listening to different types of music on my Ipod, home stereo or wherever I can find it. I am trying to get into the local band scene. I will listen to anything, but prefer smooth jazz, 80s and early 90s R&B music.

I would like to travel more. Being from a military family, I've had the opportunity to live overseas on two occasions. I've never been to the beach, so thats one on my bucket list. I'm also a homeowner.

I often get asked why I haven't gotten married and had children yet. I believe that one should have the right person first before taking on these endeavorers. Also I've been told I am picky, maybe too much for my own good. I'm not hard to please, but I can be stubborn if I don't get what I want sometimes.



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I work for OKDHS in the court field. I'm not an attorney, but often get mistaken for one.
I have a dark sense of humor, borderline cynical at times.
I love anything 80's
I really am over 40 years old. people always think I am in my late 20s or early 30s, I guess I can chalk that up to clean and healthy living.
I don't have any tattoes or plan to get any.
I start a lot of sentences with the letter "I"

very hard working man like the quiet life; cookout are cool with the right people.very down to earth a laided back type of person.movies weekend getaways photography or part of my pasttime.don;t do the club thing why it;s the same ole people everyweek rather see other places and other things.

Hello Gentleman, I am a 32 year young woman who lives in the okc area. I work full-time and a full-time student. I enjoy cooking, spending time with my family and friends. I enjoy hanging out with my biker friends and travelng. I love cuddling and spending quality time with that special person. I'm a people's person with a hilarious, fun, outgoing personality.My passions in life is being the best person I can be and to make sure that I live my life to the fullest with joy, peace and love. I feel I make a great partner because I know what It takes to be a good woman, which includes taking care of my family (home) first and making sure my partner is satisfied every which way.

real laid back man who likes to work-out, stay in good spirits with my ideal woman, and enjoy life to the fullest.

Hello ladies my name is Jerome I'm from Miami, FL born and raise I am very laide back peroson i love people im open minded just want to be love and happy with that person im with im funny loving and willing to give my all and all whatever it takes to find that true love the point i am trying to make is that i am looking for a wife but will love to get to know you first GOD BLESS

Never thought I would come back to OKC but it has actually grown into a nice place. I would like to meet a nice person starting as friends and go from there no need to rush. Color and race is not concern to me, we should have several things in common. Know when to let go and have fun we only live once can’t be serious all the time. Don’t be misled by what you see in the beginning. When a relationship is new, people tend to be on their best behavior. A person may be quite different after the relationship is established and has become ordinary. I can cook; do my own laundry keep the house clean and so many other things so why do I need a woman? A person who has my back (not financially), companionship, friendship, respect, honesty, let me know when I’m wrong and a lover. Yes I don’t care what anyone says sex is very important. I’m normal, not stuck up, I'm loyal, like to have fun, hard worker, don’t do drugs , don't smoke, drink occasionally, like to dance and I know what I want. Give it a chance you might actually like road were on. One more thing if you don’t have time or the effort to communicate please keep moving. Relationships are work it has to be 50/50.

Although, you may be beautiful, I am very allergic to cigarette smoke.

Easy going teddy bear. Career is important to me (keeps me from getting bored). Money is not important unless I do not have any (joke). If you can hold a conversation, you got me as a friend. I am a Leo, but I am not full of myself....much LOL! I do have a sense of humor. I am a father of a FANTASTIC young man that is the center of my heart! I strongly believe blood is thicker than mud.

I think it is unnecessary to say that I am a Christian, but what might not be so obvious is that after much reflection and contemplation, I have turned my life over to God. i am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I dont think that Im too critical about things, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work. i like caring for people. i am very gentlman honest, reliable and caring man..i like to bring smile to peoples face..

Easy going, non-materialistic, intelligent, creative, seeking lady with similar interests. I am into raising and breeding orchids, cactus & houseplants. Love to watch Nascar, car shows, watching football, basketball. Seeking lady with curves who is low maintenance with old fashion values. Not a church-goer, you must be okay with that.

hello i am duane i am a loving and understanding one woman man that like to have a loving and understanding one man woman i am making this short and direct and real simple but takes work to do i will do for the right woman love and treat like a queen like i know woman needs to be treated.so if you are the one let me know this is how you will be treated if you are with me

I like to go out and enjoy activities. And I also like to stay home and relax as well.

CHRISTIAN, SINGLE, STRAIGHT. Am a retired emergency worker who puts my CHRISTIANITY first . Am politically incorrect, have no tatoos nor ear, eye, nose, belly, or rings or studs anyplace on my body. I enjoy outdoor activities such as fishing, camping, horse back riding, and training SAR dogs. Church attendance is at least once a week. Personality wise I'm an introverted extrovert. Love my action and also love my quiet times. My collection of old school, doo-wop, and gospel music continues to grow, and yes, I enjoy some meadow muffin music also. Gardening, coin collecting, tornado chasing ( yes - Black people chase tornados also, and no, we're not crazy ) and cooking are some of my hobbies NOTE! Am considered a good cook and those in the know refer to me as " chef-homeboy-ar'd ". Ever slap yo' daddy for a piece of chicken?? You will when you taste mine. UPDATE- To those that have asked and those that have wondered about the "GOAT/DOG" . This goat was raised with puppies and he now thinks he's a DOG. He'll follow you around like a dog, obeys commands like a dog, and I'm trying to get him to bark. Thank you to those that were concerned about my latest surgery. All's good now. Will be fading into the sunset next month.

I'm a single father raising my 11yr old son.originally from cleveland, ohio been living inOKC going on two yrs.I work a lot im in car sales thats why im on this site i have'nt had the time to be reallysociable.When i get free time i like to go to movies hangout basically just chill im a people person around the right crowd im outspoken whithout tact to a fault im working on that...the tactfulness.I love dogs and i like cats my idea residence would be in someone country.Im living in the city now and have been all my life im looking for space, peace and quiteness eventually.Ive been told im quite funny, silly and laid back. Im looking for that one woman who wants a LTR...period

single 32 no kids just me
like to have fun and enjoy life to the fullest!!!!!!!1

I'm a cool laid back Guy looking for a cool female friend