SISTAHBIGBONE44F, 46
100% PURE LOVE, is that possible in this day and age. Optimistically I choose to believe that love in its purest and truest form is absolutely attainable but I also must admit it is becoming increasingly difficult to achieve. So many details, so many desires, so many obstacles, so many non-understandings, so many broken or lack of trusts, so many short comings, so many heart breaks, so many transgressions, so many chances, etc Seems to all over power what we all have the ability to accomplish; cooperate with our chosen counterpart and flourish in love in the manner the Lord would have us flourish and better yet grow. It is becoming hard for a man (black men to be more specific) to show a respectable love to a woman (black women) without that love coming into question. So many perpetrators get a hold of a "love" and no other way to put it, destroy the very essence of any and all positivity it possesses. Now, loving someone involves money, sex, stature, comfort, style, reputation, "bragging rights", attitude, something (one) on the side, and so much other mess.