OLESKULERULES, 57
I like being productive & at my best when I accomplish my goals.I want to be valued for who I am & not only for what I am able to produce.As w/most, I enjoy what I'm good at....pardon the dangling participle.I'm supportive of those who think for themselves but not for me.I'm protective of my companion's feelings & I see her as part of me.I want to be in a relationship where I'm respected AND loved.You can't love whom you don't respect. Seems many potential matches find my essay quite revealing, for a man.But, I'm not good at hiding my feelings.It can show in my voice, mannerisms, & body language.This self-analysis is rare.I'm not always confortable listing my personal values/vices, in a public way.Usually, after a short time in my company, most know if they like me or not.I'm outspoken, sometimes intraspective;confident, sometimes conceited;intelligent, sometimes gullable;& reserved, sometimes outragious.Logic is my strong suit, but there's value in connecting emotionally.As w/most, I have inadequacies & feel vulnerable when they're exposed.I guard those feelings closely & have to feel comfortable w/whom I'm able to open my heart & become vulnerable.I'm still a work in progress.Except now, I know what I want to be when I grow up...a better man.