• Female
• 43 years old
• 5' 6" tall
• Big & Beautiful build
• Light Brown - Brown
• Mixed Race
• I do not smoke

• Very good looking
• Media (occupation)
• Rather not say (income)
• Pen Pal
• Widowed
• Has 4 children
• Christian (religion)

A little about me...
Hey friends and strangers It's yo' girl just trying to figure it all out and raise this confused next generation. My computer keeps crashing so if a playette doesnt respond right away, pray! Pray that I finally go take that computer course and update my pc skills. . Look guys I know you hate to communicate so if you really are not into mutual words and expressions dont waste our time. If you aint got nothin to say I aint got nothin to say either. Lets not even waste my time if you dont have a pic. I need constant stimulation and an exchange of words is what it is all about. And please keep your minds out of the gutter and not below the belt. When I say constant stimulation I mean that as long as I am awake I need to be engaged worthwhile, mutually fulfilling enterprise. I work hard and then I like to play even harder and by play that could mean picnics to amusement parks to just catching a movie or sumpin' Try to press on to a mature woman and all the many engaging things that make life worth the struggle. please no one under 5'10 and again I emphasize a well done brother. I am too yellow for a yellow man.

What are you looking for in a partner?
At last I will reveal who exactly you need to be to get at me. A succesful man, very sure of himself. Always in control and knows how to handle the situation(fake it if you have to) Weakness is such a turnoff. I have seen a grown man cry and it is not a pretty sight. Just playin. You know what I mean. No wimps, no whiners. Evolved and afrocentric in his thinking and outlook. Not militant just informed. Generous, Engaging, Attentive and thoughtful not fussy and buggaboo-ish(new word) Tailored with a street flair, TOTALLY straight. I'm not trying to convert anyone. Help me with my car(Fix it, keep it clean-fill up the tank) Love my impossible-know it all-children-just because. This is the man I see in my dreams maybe now he will see me. Wants to take me 2 new, exciting places even if its only in our minds-last but not least. Clean(healthy), Safe(no evil-kneivals), Nurturing(appreciates nature) and affirming(wants me and wants whats best for me-HIM).

I'd just like to add...
Every one has a quirk or two and a passion or three. My passion is theater and the arts. Theater was my first love and then it was Some Boy. I love music too-I can enjoy any and all music accept for bagpipes. If I had to choose 1? Neo-Soul. Erica Badu, Maxwell, Soul to Soul, Loose Ends, Lauren Hill, Jill Scott...add some Alexander Oneil, Mary J, Cheryl Lynn, Isley and R. Kelly and I'm good to go!. . . Got to have Luther's definitve works. I am quirky about my personal space and I cherish my privacy and discretion in this age of "all in your business." My daily junk food is "the Young and Restless" and I like the Apprentice alot too. I crave chocolate once a month and I must have it in some form or another If you can't marry me or buy me a ROCK-send me to a spa complete with waterfalls, candles, aroma therapy, mud massages and lots of health consious delicacies. (Don't worry, I will pamper you too!) One more thing- if this is BPM-Black People Meet, why do we have a white Jesus motif???????? PEOPLE!!!!!!