• Female
• 44 years old
• 5' 4" tall
• Big & Beautiful build
• Black - Brown
• Asian
• I do not smoke

• Good looking
• Clerical/Administrative (occupation)
• $25,000 - $35,000 (income)
• Pen Pal
• Divorced
• Has 1 child
• Agnostic (religion)

A little about me...
I love being a lady and love to be treated like a lady. I am physically active and work out or dance at least 3 times a week, and have alot more to offer than looks. I'm not in the race to be the next Beyonce. Too old for that! **grins**


I'm passionate, and open-minded. A positive thinker and mediator of sorts, I like to think of myself as one who brings love and harmony to a room that might otherwise inhibit negativity and pessimism. Some people say they can see my mind at work often. I enjoy people and am intrigued by what motivates them.

I have a no-nonsense flair to me. I can be spontaneous or dormant. I`m honest to a fault. My thoughts are constant and detailed. My mind is far more active than my voice. I try not to say things without careful thought first. My passionate nature can make this a challenge at times.

I`m a good listener, compassionate and understanding. So good, I think I am a magnet for long-winded chatterboxes. They can be boring.

What are you looking for in a partner?
CHEMISTRY! Physical attraction, good conversation, along with a good connection is utmost important to me. You don't have to be a movie star in lifestyle or looks per se but in my eyes you have to have star quality. Star quality includes knowing how to deal with people, and be a go-getter man with integrity and honesty. He cannot have too many irons in the fire. He's got to know how to WIN! That's a start for now.

I would like to meet a special gentleman who enjoys exploring different cultures as I am asian, black, indian, and white. Physiological chemistry is very important to me, so please provide a pic. You wouldn't have come to my profile had there been NO PIC, right? (smile) If you think you fit into my world, lets chat!

I feel that the brain is the most powerful organ we have. Stimulate my mind....the love will follow!

Are you an unattached, romantic, supportive man who openly expresses his deepest feelings and listens attentively to his woman`s? Are you well-groomed, not afraid of responsibility or commitment? Do you have time to love me? Do you have stimulating conversation? Are you romantically daring and expressive? Do you practice chivalry? Does your character and personality go beyond this?

I'd just like to add...
Attending jazz and R&B concerts, reading biographies and true crime, enjoying good food and wine, surfing the net, Chicago step dancing all night long, chillin' one-on-one or hangin' out with a group are just a few things in which I indulge. I love to laugh, sing (karaoke), travel, and learn. I love movies of all kinds, from gangster to drama to B&W to romantic comedies.