• Female
• 38 years old
• 5' 4" tall
• Average build
• Dark Brown - Brown
• Black/African descent
• I smoke daily

• Good looking
• Computer related (IS) (occupation)
• Rather not say (income)
• Casual relationship
• Divorced
• Has 2 children
• Christian (religion)

A little about me...
I guess it is time to udate my profile due to events that will now take me to the Charlotte, NC surrounding area. I recently accepted a position in Charlotte, and I am in the process of deciding where I will live possibly Ft Mill or Rock Hill South Carolina, since I hear the school system in those areas would offer the best educational value to my daughter. It would be nice to receive responses from people to share information about the following things that will make my transition easier:

Churches
Poetry/Spoken Word Events
Places to go for the Grown and Sexy or after work mixers
Places my daughter would find interesting

I am looking for a casual relationship for now, if we seem to have a connection, the possibility of moving into something serious is definately an option. Casual means we can talk and maybe hang out. I enjoy stimulating conversation with good, down to earth, real people. Casual does not mean a sexual encounter. If that is what you are looking for "KEEP IT MOVIN".

What are you looking for in a partner?
REAL WOMAN CAN MOLD REAL MEN

Little boys like to use smooth words as they try to tap into our minds
Their flowetry may not be bad but to these tactics we cannot be blind
The words they share and the games they play are not original at all
Thinking this game makes them real men feeling as if they stand 10 feet tall
Brother, please! Get it straight! Lying, conniving, and manipulating does not make you a real man.
It does prove you to be little boys trying to survive by getting away with what you can.
Don’t you realize you’re creating a merry-go-round that spinning out of control
Transforming real women into nothing more than little girls?
But, no matter how you try to spin us or push us
Our hands will still rule the world
My Sisters, we cannot get caught up playing silly little children’s game
Because no matter how we are provoked we are the ones taking the brunt of the blame
You see, these little boys are classified as bachelors and player no matter how it goes
While we have the pleasure of being branded as nothing more than slots and hoes
And unfortunately, there is no need for us to plead or argue our cases, because
No matter what we say our words will be regurgitated and spat right back into our faces

I'd just like to add...
Instead we need to get off of this merry-go-round that has withstood the test of time
Causing these little boys to become real men so we are no longer branded due to their crime
Our desire to be loved, supported, and cared for has proven to lead little boys to fame
It has also proven to be the main artery that has led us down the road of shame
We as real woman, have the power to make a positive difference in this world
Our actions can transform little boys into real men, but first…………….
We have to stop acting like nothing more than little girls.

© 2008 arenewbeginning


PET PEEVES:

Pot Bellies (preventing you from seeing your waist down)
Jacked up teeth - that DOES include grills
Bad attitudes
Lying/Failure to follow through
Profiles with NO Pics (you see me I would like to see you)

Believe it or not, honesty will take you a long way. I have nothing but respect for those that are willing to be real with me, ultimately, not compromising being real with themselves.

"Say what you mean and mean what you say!"