• Female
• 35 years old
• 5' 4" tall
• Slender build
• Black - Brown
• Black/African descent
• I do not smoke

• Very good looking
• Self Employed (occupation)
• Rather not say (income)
• Serious relationship
• Never Married
• Has 1 child
• Christian (religion)

A little about me...
Easy Going, Funny, Adventurous, Business Minded, Have my Own Unique Style. Like to try extraordinary things. Don't do clubs so much. I'd much rather hang out at a jazz spot or funky little lounge, sip on martini's & kick back with friends. I'm a far cry from the angry black woman stereotype. Mainly, because I don't keep company with many women, given we are even too high maintenance as friends. I just prefer to avoid all the negative energy, drama and male bashing that goes on when women get together. Energy is neither created nor destroyed but simply transferred. Isn’t that a law of physics or something. True That!!

Importance of $$: Have my own & the things I like to do cost money (travel, dinners, or just chilling for a week or two without having to worry about bills). I do these things solo & I expect to continue them if I meet someone special, as I expect that special someone to share his enjoyments with me. Don't Need a Sponsor & have NO INTENTIONS on being a sponsor for a man who can't do the things I'm accustomed to. Just keeping it real, because the minute, I say I’m headed to “XYZ” and he can’t afford to come, I’m going to get hammered with the guilt trip, “You Left Me”. Been there, done that. Doesn’t work for me.

What are you looking for in a partner?
Love smart guys and of course someone who can make me laugh. I'm unimpressed with men who try to win my affections with material things. I think that is 'wack'. A man wins my heart with SUBSTANCE and CONTENT, not with his wallet. Need a man that is 10ft tall in my eyes, so my guy can't be one to get absorbed by little things (example- Doesn't like to step out of his comfort zone), becomes insecure by a woman he perceives to be successful, and has a “BITCH ASS” list of things he doesn't like to do. I need a guy who I can look up to and respect. I'm very in to gender roles. I like men to be men and I think women should behave like women. So yes, that means I love to cater to the right guy. What I try to bring to the table is honesty, trust, open communication, fun, no drama, companionship, and we see where it goes from there..

Ok, so here's the shallow part:

Gotta a weakness for a well-dressed, good smelling, tall slender men, ( you know, with the basketball player build)...luv it!! I love the professional with swagga. If that's you...HOLLLA!!!!

I'd just like to add...
Things I love: Miami, Garbage Vh1 Reality Show's, Anderson 360-'My boy..", Discovering little know musicians, restaurants, shops... Great company.

I’m at a stage where I want to wild out and kick it with my guy some days, and enjoy the simple things in life with him on others.
WARNING: I'm a Very strong woman. I am not for the easily intimidated nor am I a good match for an insecure brother who THINKS he wants an independent woman, but at the SAME TIME has no idea what it means. I will never tell a man I don't need him, so if your the brother that feels the need to throw me that guilt trip from the door about "why u want me anyway?"....keep steppin...