• Female
• 35 years old
• 5' 8" tall
• Average build
• Dark Brown - Brown
• Black/African descent
• I do not smoke

• Good looking
• Computer related (software) (occupation)
• $50,000 - $75,000 (income)
• Casual relationship
• Never Married
• Has 2 children
• Christian (religion)

A little about me...
I am a strong woman who knows how to be a woman and let a man be a man. I am an independent woman, yet I often believe that it is both a curse as well as a gift to be this way. It is very difficult to find a man who can deal with a woman who can do so many things for herself. Because of circumstances, I am simply able to adapt and take care of my own business without having to rely on someone else to provide for me. I think it is way past time for me to stop being in so many roles. Simply put, I am just ready to be a woman and find a man who wants to be a man.

People ask me why I am single when I seem to have so many things going for myself. First of all, I have made poor decisions in my relationships. The biggest problem was my selection of insecure men. I just want a really smart man (smart doesn't necessarily mean educated because I know plenty of men who have degrees who are not that smart). I like atypical people... someone who isn't afraid to think out of the box and be different and experimental.

What are you looking for in a partner?
Intelligent, goal oriented and faithful. Since I am a little introverted, I am usually attracted to the outgoing type... that usually creates a nice balance. I just want to meet someone who has intelligent and stimulating conversation.
Also, someone who can teach me things and expand my horizon would be great.

I'd just like to add...
If you do not live in Indianapolis, please don't waste time sending me message. I don't do long distance relationships.
I prefer men whose complexion is darker than mine. If this makes me shallow, oh well. Again, I just don't want to waste my time.
Finally, if you are insecure, please, please don't message me.
Additionally, if you THINK that I am going on a date with you and you can't even hold a stimulating conversation with me, THINK again! I absolutely refuse to waste my time being in the presence of someone who just wants to lust after me and really has no interest in a word that I say... I just can't do it. Is that asking for too much?