• Female
• 46 years old
• 5' 6" tall
• Big & Beautiful build
• Black - Brown
• Black/African descent
• I do not smoke

• Good looking
• Retired (occupation)
• Rather not say (income)
• Pen Pal
• Legally Separated
• Has 1 child
• Agnostic (religion)

A little about me...
Currently in Miami for 6 months(4/10) caring for my elderly parents, but normally I live in the San Francisco Bay Area. On any given day there are many things to do. Theatre, Cruising around North Beach, People watching in Union Square, Comedy clubs, the Symphony... I have a wonderful sense of humor and I love to laugh, yet on the opposite end of the spectrum I enjoy intellectual conversations as well. I am very much a Lady, Rubenesque, open-minded, intelligent, conscious, easy going, honest, respectful. I have a passion for life and the ability to think outside the box. I am far from perfect, yet strive everyday to become a better woman. I have the ability to accept you for who you are and not fit you into some unrealistic image/mold dictated by societies standards of "manhood" and hope that you can accept me for the woman that I am, imperfections and flaws alike.

I enjoy outdoor events, camping, boating, flying, sporting events (football, basketball), movies, bookstores, antique shopping, wine tasting, walking on the beach, long drives on the coastline. (Hwy 1) Let's have some fun !!

What are you looking for in a partner?
A Question Gentleman... IS CHIVALRY DEAD ??????

Seeking a Gentleman who is a NON SMOKER, confident, but not arrogant or dismissive, slow to anger, easy to laugh, kind, supportive, open, honest, a communicator who seeks resolution vs. walking away, one who can recognize his faults(we all have them) and takes an interest in making himself a better man, one who understands the anatomy of a sincere apology. Lastly, a man who recognizes that I am a woman with feelings, thoughts, dreams and preferences.

Friendship based on honesty, mutual respect and admiration is the way to my heart, from there the sky is the limit. I am not the average girl in your video, but if you have an appreciation for a woman of Rubenesque stature, full-bodied, voluptuous, a woman comfortable in her skin, confident in her sensuality. Let's take the time to plant a seed. Will it grow into something substantial ? Let's find out.

FIRST STIMULATE & ENGAGE MY MIND, MY HEART AND BODY WILL FOLLOW!!

I'd just like to add...
I choose to live by a NO PRE-JUDGMENT, NO EXPECTATION CREED.

For you Brothas' who use your SEXUAL PROWESS as your greeting, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE break the chains of mental slavery. You are still enslaved as a stud/stallion/breeder. Please google and read "The Making of a Slave" along with "The Willie Lynch Letter" and free your mind. I say this out of Love for YOU & MY PEOPLE **PLEASE** 400 YEARS LATER AND HERE WE STILL STAND, no longer physically enslaved but mentally and emotionally. I REFUSE TO GIVE UP ON YOU!!
Thank you Your potential Sistah/Friend/Lover/Life Partner

Gentlemen, My Beautiful Black Brothas... THANK YOU ONE & ALL!! How can I express to you all that you have given me. With every thought, compliment, wink, message, you have made me feel, honored, loved, desired, sexy, sensual & beautiful. I am overwhelmed, delighted, and humbled all at once. I just wanted to be A VOICE that expresses a deep appreciation, support and gratitude to YOU, "NOT ALL MEN ARE DOGS" and to acknowledge YOU GOOD MEN ! Thank You