• Female
• 46 years old
• 5' 5" tall
• Average build
• Dark Brown - Black
• Black/African descent
• I do not smoke

• Average looking
• Education (occupation)
• Rather not say (income)
• Serious relationship
• Divorced
• Has 3 children
• Christian (religion)

A little about me...
IF YOU READ MY ENTIRE PROFILE AND/OR WATCH MY VIDEOS - YOU WILL FIND YOURSELF SAYING "AMEN TO THAT SISTER" AND MORE IMPORTANTLY…IT WILL SAVE US BOTH SOME TIME. I keep my profile CURRENT for a reason. I want you to know what I look NOW so you can make an INFORMED decision lol. I expect the same. If you have to hide (witness protection, you’re a spy or detective), TRUST me - I'm NOT interested. No picture, blurry pictures, TINY pictures get the same reaction from me - NONE. No drama for this Mama.

The dating scene has been an interesting classroom for me, yet I still feel like I'm first grade. I was married long enough to clearly understand the value and importance of partnership and I’ve been single long enough -- to long for it again. One thing I’m very clear about is this - the process of building a good relationship cannot be rushed. Nor can it be built so slow that both parties start to lose interest. I believe in a good balanced but consistant approach.

I'm very playful, lovable, confident, sweet, and very spicy. I love my career and I have a great life. My children are mostly grown (youngest 18) so it's MY time now...lol. I love to do almost anything that won’t kill me -as long as we are having fun and it's legal!

What are you looking for in a partner?
I actually say what I mean and I mean what I say.

I’m looking for a man that I’m attracted to…. which is why you need to have updated, and clear picture(s).

Having good chemistry is a must (i.e. we move each other, good conversation, common goals, and values).

He should be confident in who he is and have a good sense of what he wants in a relationship.

Have a great sense of humor (i.e. you laugh from your belly several times a day). If you take yourself too seriously or you NEED someone to make you happy…I’m not the one.

He should be playful like me (i.e. enjoys doing things and going places).

Someone with good energy – no coach potatoes…been there done that…nooooooooooooooooooo!

Someone who wants a long term relationship with the right person. I’m not looking to make anymore friends (I have enough) or practice my writing skills with a pen pal.

A man that is not afraid to go after what he wants and does with a passion.

I'd just like to add...
My Confession Corner:

I’m not into phone sex....hmm ok that takes care of good 50% of the men on BPM...lol

I have a great sense of humor but I’m not cute when I’m mad…lol.

I do not look like this when I wake up…lol

I do look like my pictures so it doesn’t get better or any worse…lol

My freak abilities or bedroom habits are not up for discussion with strangers.

When I’m in a relationship, I don’t tolerate coming second to a job, hobby, or friends - nor will I expect you to. A great way to think about this is to ask yourself “Have I lost anyone because of one or more of these things?” Balance baby Balance!

I quickly lose interest in peek-a-boo brothers period. If there's an initial interest and we start a conversation and you disappear for weeks - I WILL NOT remember who you are.....lol. I'm sorry what's your name again? Ok that really made me laugh. Having the Peek-a-Boo syndrome is not a quality but a serious flaw that can hurt any relationship. Again no Drama for Mama...lol

Asking me the question “Why are you single”, is a bad way to start a conversation..lol. Let's see - more than half the population is divorced and or single -right? Just life. That's my final ANSWER...lol.